Excerpt from Wikipedia article on Dominance and Submission
Dominance and submission (also known as D&s, Ds or D/s) is a set of behaviors, customs and rituals involving the giving by one individual to another individual of dominance over them in an erotic episode or as a lifestyle arrangement.
Physical contact is not a necessity, and it can even be conducted anonymously over the telephone, email or other messaging system. In other cases, it can be intensely physical, sometimes traversing into sadomasochism. In D/s, both parties take pleasure or erotic enjoyment from either dominating or being dominated. Those who take the superior position are called dominants, doms (male) or dommes (female), while those who take the subordinate position are called submissives or subs (male or female). A switch is an individual who plays in either role. Two switches together may negotiate and exchange roles several times in a session. "Dominatrix" is a term usually reserved for a female professional dominant who dominates others for pay.
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I did not believe that I could properly convey Domination without conveying a definition that took into account the other side, submission. There is no Domination without the submission of another.
In our every day lives we see hints of it. There are people where one partner is more in charge than the other. There is always an element of Dominance and submission no matter what a relationship is. We see it in companies with managers and employees, or in positions where someone has more experience in a subject teacher/student. It even creeps its way into our romantic and sexual lives.
Domination involves first and foremost being in control of oneself. A Dominant must have self control, because often the dominant person in a relationship is in charge of the other, takes care of them mentally, emotionally and physically. Many Dominants will make sure they are in a stable place in their lives before taking on a submissive.
Being Dominant doesn't necessarily mean that you just direct someone, and make them do things. It means that once the collar is around their neck, they are yours. You care for them in so many ways. Before one takes on Domination as a lifestyle it is wise to make sure your life is stable. These are all important things.
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